I've been married now for almost a month! I'm not sure if some women feel a big difference once they get married but I know that the day we got married, like the actual night, I felt like I had more responsibility for some reason. Like I had to get more serious!

I think that most men feel that way before they get married and that's what makes them wait to pop the question, but it's really true. It feels more serious, but a good serious.  Tim and I are still the same, but deep down we feel like "ok we are doing this thing called life together...forever." The feeling is really good.
Our number one question right now is if we should stay living in this apartment or should we buy a starter home? I absolutely love our apartment even though it could use some work, it's our home and it's cozy to us.  I don't see the point in buying a home just to buy one. I would much rather rent until we find our dream home and then purchase when we are ready to commit. I feel people want to jump in right when they get married to buy a house and have kids but we aren't even sure when and if we want to have kids! So as much as we feel like we should get more serious in the more usual American lifestyle. I much prefer the "DINK" lifestyle which I just learned yesterday from someone at our apartment pool -(totally grown up of me)


Dual Income No Kids---- Plan. Hilarious. Although I do think we will have children one day, it's not on our mind and since a house isn't completely on our minds either, this apartment is fine by me! I have my coffee shops within walking distance, my favorite yoga classes-walking distance, favorite nail salon. Not to mention I work from home so I enjoy having things within walking distance if I feel like I want to get out of the house.
Or maybe I am just making up excuses to just not grow up. I can't help it! Anyway, our new chapter is extremely fun and exciting and having the choice is even more fun. For now we will be apartment renters. It's cozy, it's convenient, and it's US. :)


Until then... let me know what you think about renting after marrying? Thoughts?

Thank you so much to Betty. We can't thank her enough for doing these amazing photos and video for us in Scotland. More than I hoped and imagined! If you ever find yourself in Europe in need of an excellent, natural, and talented photographer or videographer, ummm, Betty from Tub of Jelly please!

Our video. I love. We thank you Betty from Tub of Jelly

Amelia & Timothy's Wedding from om/user15641384">Amelia Miller on Vimeo.

Amelia & Timothy's Wedding from om/user15641384">Amelia Miller on Vimeo.

When I started browsing through photographers in Scotland for our destination wedding I started to get discouraged. I was beginning to think that I would have to bring my tripod and take photos myself. I found one photographer that I liked and I contacted him. Until I came across this one.
I got so excited looking at her portfolio and website, "Finally a photographer who knows what's up!" It's kind of funny too because in her about me section it says she only works with couples who "get it."  Let me tell you, I definitely get it and she completely got me and Tim as a couple. She never asked us to smile, grin, or anything. The entire shoot was natural and exactly how me and Tim are in person.  We took these photos 2 days after our wedding, 2 hours away from our site in downtown Glasgow Scotland. She took us on a small tour during the shoot and Tim and I couldn't stop talking about how easy it was to work with her and how much we love her!
 (Also, at the end of the shoot we were walking back to our hotel and ran into my dad. She got a shot of his sweet, huge, and happy smile and us hugging. I just love her. :)) The AMAZING
Betty from TUB OF JELLY.

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